tuesday things

We made it to spring!! I couldn’t be more excited! Dave and I spent the last two weekends working countless hours both inside and outside of our house, prepping for the various guests we have over the next two weeks. (Expect “Of House and Home” posts soon!)

1. Last week the Cherry Blossoms reached their peak, and I took some time out of my day to stroll and enjoy.

2. This time of year I always start to get Texas-sick – maybe I’m missing the bluebonnets or the beautiful Texas skies, but I definitely switch my listening ears over to country music in the spring.

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I woke up this morning … Texas on my mind. #homesick

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3. My hankering for a little honky-tonk has come just in time, too! Tomorrow night we are going to the Pat Green concert with a few friends. It’s been three years since I last saw him. The venue is small so it makes for a fairly intimate setting. Naturally we’ll fill up on barbecue beforehand!

4. Random, but did you know that “obnoxious person” is really a boor not bore? Thanks, Miss Manners. Learn something new every day.

5. Dave tells me over and over that I need to have more confidence. Apparently as a woman, I am just wired this way! Seriously though, if I ever have girls I hope to instill in them a sense of “over-confidence.”

Of House and Home: Rock On

Yes, I know, it’s been a while. A lot has happened since I last posted about the house on my tuesday things post a couple weeks ago, and not necessarily all good. You already know I went to Texas last weekend (which was great!) but it’s what happened right before the weekend that’s not-so-great…

Just a few days after ratifying the contract, we had our home inspection. Luckily we had a guy who has to be the best inspector around town! He found quite a bit wrong with the home, some expected, but much of it not. We certainly did not expect to find that laundry list of items in one home, and neither did our agent.

Unfortunately due to some inaccessibility issues, we had to go back for a second time to finish up. The next day we served our notice. Let’s just say the inspector told us that “even the laziest of inspectors would have a pretty little list for this place,” and M had never given a report that lengthy. In the end, the seller did not agree to even half of the terms, so sadly, we had to break the contract and walk away.

As sad as we are, I know that it’s for the best. Even though I loved the house and could really see us there, it wasn’t meant to be. A co-worker pointed out, “You even said you were holding back your excitement. Your subconscious was telling you that this wasn’t right.” I know there is another house out there for us, and now we just have to find it!

Luckily, the day we broke the contract, Dave and I had a fun event to attend at the Hard Rock Cafe DC – so we decided to “Rock On” and have fun for the night, but also to just keep on rockin’ with the house search. Our friend Jordan manages the DC HRC, and last Thursday night was their “Movers and Shakers” VIP party, fully equipped with plenty of food, free-flowing libations, a photo booth complete with props and, of course, rock ‘n’ roll! They even had dancers who could totally stand up next to Beyonce with the moves they were showing off!



Jordan and me!


The event was a hit (no pun intended) and we even got fun party favors! We basically closed the place down, and Jordan actually let me crash the ice sculpture in front of the restaurant at the end of the night. It was very therapeutic :)

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#rockon #icebreaker #latergram #hardrockcafe #lovethatlaugh

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our party favors


Jordan snuck these lights in my party bag
what to do with them …

All I can say is that I can’t wait for next year’s shindig! Thanks HRC for a super good time!!

Are you a mover? Or a shaker?!

(I think I’m a mover, but when I saw those “Beyonce dancers” I really wanted to be a shaker!)

tuesday things: you can take the girl out of Texas…

But you can’t take Texas out of the girl!

This past weekend, I made an impromptu trip to Texas to surprise my friend Arielle at her wedding shower soiree. Since I can’t make it to the wedding, I watched fares religiously for this weekend with the hope that they would go low enough for me to make it. I booked a great flight that allowed me to maximize the full weekend without taking time off work.

Friday night Mom, Kathy, Resalin, Kelsey and little munchkin Silvia picked me up from DFW. It was a fabulous showing of the ladies and I was super excited to see each of them. Even though Mom and Kathy came for a visit in June, I hadn’t been to Texas since the holidays and had been feeling homesick for a couple months. Res, Kelsey and I had a bit of wine and cheese, courtesy of Jude, and spent some time chatting.

The next morning we met Kathy for brunch at Pete’s. You guys, I’m not saying this just because my parents own the place, but Pete’s Cafe is a Farmers Branch staple, and shame on you if you have not been! I spent the afternoon with Dad and Jennifer then made a stop by the Asby household to drop off a b-day gift for Betsy. Then it was time for the soiree…

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Mmmm #bacon! #getinmybelly

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^^ Silvia enjoying her bacon like a good girl! ^^

The look on Arielle’s face when she saw me was priceless! She screamed and cried a bit then spent the rest of the night telling everyone how I’d flown from DC to be there. TOTALLY WORTH IT! Also it was pretty much the coolest shower I’ve been to because it was one big backyard bbq with a keg instead of the awkward standing around in dresses making small talk while eating finger sandwiches before gathering to watch the guest of honor open presents, naturally cooning at each item. (Can you tell how I loathe your typical shower?) I spent time catching up with old friends and eventually had to make my way back to Dad’s.

Arielle and me :)

Arielle and me :)

MIS girls all grown up!

MIS girls all grown up!

We went to a late dinner at Cantina Laredo of table-side guac, ahi tuna tacos, enchiladas, and of course, margaritas! It was a great time and also delicious – especially once we got the apple dessert of sorts that was drenched in sizzling brandy butter. Yum.

The next day I ate at Pete’s again for breakfast, but this time while catching up with friends Emily and Madison. Phone dates, texts, Facebook posts will do to an extent, but nothing compares to a good face-to-face chat with friends over coffee, wine… or both! (Don’t judge. The coffee came at breakfast and it was after noon by the time we had wine.)

Soon it was time to return to DC, which always makes me sad. At least I knew that Dave would pick me up on the other side, more than enough reason to be happy!

I love Texas and it will certainly always be home. Here are just a few of my favorite things about the Great State**:

1. Pete’s Cafe. Duh. I ate there twice and even got lunch to go on the way to the airport – had to have the chicken fried steak sandwich once on my trip! Add jalapenos and it is perfection between buns.

^^ Pete’s chicken fried steak sandwich with a roadie rose on the way to DFW ^^

2. Getting picked up at the airport, usually by Mom. Even if I saw her just a few weeks before, she is always so excited to see me! (I’m obviously excited to see her too!) It’s definitely the perfect greeting, and even better when one or all of the other ladies join. (Notice I am mentioning nothing about getting dropped off at the airport. Leaving is no fun!)

3. Meals with Dad. Wine with Dad. It’s always fun to just relax and eat, relax and drink. Dad usually cooks, but even going out to eat is fun!

4. Sunsets. The Texas sunsets are this perfect blend of pink, orange, blue, purple, red… basically every color.

^^ the view from my window landing at DFW ^^

5. Backroads driving with country on the radio. I love driving the windy roads of Texas with country blaring on the radio, going down to my mom’s property in the Texas Hill Country, or driving to A&M, which leads me to my next point.

6. Texas A&M. Aggie football is just about the best sport in the world. I made some great friends and memories in Aggieland and really miss that place. Gig em!

7. My friends and family that live all over the state. The hardest part about leaving Texas is not being able to see them regularly. These short weekend trips are just not enough, but as you can tell from my “Of House and Home” series here, here and here, I won’t be moving back anytime soon. (Yes, I know it’s been a while since I posted about the house, but it will come this week. Promise.)

**After writing this, I realized that my friend Olivia wrote a similar theme in her blog last month, Mother May I. Check it out!


What are your favorite things about Texas??